Getting Better (part 3 of 9)
In early 1977 my Dad took my brother and me down to a club to play Australian Rules Football. We were in the Under 11 team. My brother was 10, I was 8 - two years younger than my opponents. The season began, I played on the half back flank, my brother in the centre. It was tough going for me, I was a scrawny kid. I got a few touches but spent most of the time marvelling at my brother. We won one game for the season against Edithvale-Aspendale by about twenty goals. At the end of the season we had a presentation afternoon. My brother won best and fairest, a big trophy and he deserved it. Each player received a small medal. To this day I still hang it over my desk.
In 1978 we returned. But this year I was to play in the Under 10's, my brother in the Under 12's. I was the ruck rover. I remember the first match in Autumn. We were at home to a team from the south. I played well relishing the fact my opponents were my size. About three minutes to go I took a screamer (catch) in the goal square and kicked a goal. We won by three points. I felt so good. I checked our weekly newspaper for the match report the following Thursday, I was mentioned. Every game of 1978 I was in the paper. I still have the clippings in an old photo album. That year I won my first trophy, the best and fairest. The award ceremony was on a sunny Sunday. Needless to say I was nervous walking up to accept my trophy.
The following year in 1979 me and a few others were asked if we could fill in for the Under 12's for the season, they were short. I was sort of reluctant as once again the players would be older than me. But I did play - it was more difficult. They played me in the centre, a few games I battled in the ruck against older kids. I found the harder the task, the more I stood up. We didn't make the finals in 1979. Probably due to the confusion of my Dad leaving the family, I didn't go to the presentation. In fact I didn't even give it a thought. On a Sunday evening my Mum's sister rang. She said I had won third best and fairest for the Under 12's! I couldn't believe it. As I type right now, in my left hand, I hold my little wooden trophy from that year. I have won six other trophies - two bests, three seconds and another third - but it is this gutsy third that means most. I was an underdog - smaller, weaker, younger - but still I got up.

- Under 12's 1979 3rd
Never give up...
'In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer' - Albert Camus