In my life, I have relied on that song and "So Long, Marianne," to keep bitterness at bay.
I remember seeing bitter women throughout my life, first noticing them in my teens and from then on, and saying to myself, "No matter what it takes, I will not be like that."
Part of that overall endeavour was to not get into name calling, and all that other ugly stuff, against my previous partner, after we were no longer together...."hatred is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." I may reference some of the 'facts of the case'

, but with no derogatory names attached. [I'd love to say there were never any incidents of name calling
within the relationship, but
that would be a lie

~ however, even that seems so ludicrous, at this point in my life. Stick to the issues, and if it's so bad that you can't, then rethink where you're at in the first place.]
Anyway, Leonard arrived in my life just in time, to allow for anger and pain to remain in those modes, without morphing into bitterness. Who knows? Maybe they wouldn't have, anyway.....I was so resolute from the beginning; but, his songs played such a central part, that I guess I'll never be able to sort it, to know for absolute sure. I'll always give his perspectives credit, however, as I always returned to them without fail. I would play my records at top volume, sing, move [bodily release], and cry. Leonard's songs are ideal for processing intense feelings, both positive and negative.
~ Lizzy